FACE for Neighbours
Face the conflict without fighting it out
Some disputes don’t break any law, so there’s no easy answer from police or by-law. A community circle helps neighbours, landlords and tenants, coworkers or members of a club sit down and sort it out. We build communities one neighbour at a time.
Where a community circle can help
We’ve heard it all before
- “An ongoing feud over a line fence, shared driveway or other encroachment”
- “Those kids next door (or maybe their dog) drive you crazy”
- “Do they really have to keep their yard in such a state?”
- “My landlord / tenants just won’t listen”
The same circle process works for conflict in the workplace, and for relationships that have soured within a club, team or congregation.
How a community circle works
From standoff to new beginning
- 1
You ask us
Anyone affected by the conflict can ask, ideally before police or by-law get involved. It helps if the other side has agreed to take part, but we can help with that. - 2
We listen to both sides first
No one can be forced to attend a circle; everyone comes voluntarily. We meet each side, hear their point of view, and explain the benefits of talking it through in a safe setting. - 3
Everyone has their say
In the circle, each person in turn shares their experience of the conflict and how it has affected them. - 4
Agree on a new beginning
Each person says what they need and what they can contribute to make things right. Together you build a plan everyone can live with.
What a community circle offers
Answers, not accusations
- A place to sit together in a quiet and safe setting
- A chance to say what needs to be said and actually have someone listen
- A chance to listen and begin to understand different points of view
- The experience of working on answers, not accusations
- A neutral setting where everyone can feel valued and respected
What does it cost?
We are a volunteer organization relying on donations only, so there is no set fee. You get to decide what you can or may wish to donate.
Other programs
More ways FACE can help
- For youth & adults
Court & Police Referrals
Instead of going to court, the people affected by an offence meet face to face, agree on how to make things right, and move on.
Learn more - For families
FACE for Families
Constant arguing, rules ignored, someone feeling shut out. A family circle helps everyone be heard and agree on a fresh start.
Learn more
Talk before it escalates
The earlier you call, the easier it is. We’ll listen, and help you approach the other side.